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               94  International Multi. J. of PURE LIFE. 10 (33): 63-100, Winter. 2023
               (Ref:  Quran,  2:  83;  4:  22;            ✓  Not      to      address
               17: 23)                                       parents  by  calling  out

                  The     manifestations     of              their names.
               kindness  have  been  pointed              ✓  To  avoid  ordering
               out  and  explicated  in  the                 parents. (Hurr Amili,

               traditions. Some of the most                  1991, Vol. 15: 205-277)
               important      manifestations              ✓  To  avoid  hurting
               mentioned therein are as under:               parents  even  to  the

                   ✓  To obey parents.                       extent     of     saying
                   ✓  To  talk  to  parents                  “Uff” to them.
                      gently and nicely.                  ✓  Taking  special  care

                   ✓  To avoid interrupting                  of parents in their old
                      parents.                               age. (Ref: Quran, 17:
                   ✓  To  show  humbleness                   23-24)

                      and  humility  towards
                      parents.                           The basis of relationships
                   ✓  To  tend  to  parents           and  the  most  important
                      and fulfill their needs.        factor that binds parents to

                   ✓  To pray for parents.            their  children  is  the  blood
                   ✓  To  share  their  grief         relationship  between  the
                      and happiness.                  parents  and  their  children.

                   ✓  To  be  more  kind  to          The  parents'  names  are  a
                      mother.                         sign of that relationship.
                   ✓  To appreciate, in words            If  a  child  addresses  his

                      and in practice, their          parents by calling out their
                      favors and sacrifices.          names,  it  is  as  though  he
                                                      has  forgotten  or  ignored
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