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               130  International Multi. J. of PURE LIFE. 8 (28): 129-150, Autumn 2021
               Introduction                                 “Rather,  the  heart  of
               Almighty Allah said:                         the  juvenile  (youngster,
                      “O  you  who  believe,                child,  minor)  is  like  a
                      ward off yourselves and               vacant land.  It accepts
                      your  families  against  a            whatever is thrown into
                      fire”. (Qur'an, 66: 6)                it.  So,  I  took  the
                                                            initiative  to  discipline
                  When  this  verse  was  sent,             you    with    politeness
               people  asked  how  would  we                before     your     heart
               protect  our  families  against              hardens,  and  works  for
               fire.  The  Prophet,  peace  be              you”. (Nahj al-Balagha,
               upon  him,  answered  as  Imam               Sermons 3)
               Sadiq told:

                      “Do good, remind your             When  the  child  reaches
                      family     of    it   and      adolescence,  some  challenges
                      discipline  them  to  obey     begin.  It  is  a  phase  that
                      God  [Allah]”.  (Noori         oscillates  between  childhood
                                                     and adulthood. A teenager may
                      Tabarsi,  V.  12:  201,        feel  kind  of  lost  as  he  is  no
                      Hadith 13881-13882)            longer a child and has not yet
                                                     become a man. It's neither this
                  Pedagogy  emphasizes  the          nor  that.  That's  why  he  needs
               initiative   to   educate     and     to be attended, educated, cared
               discipline  kids  since  early        for,   and     understood     by
               childhood. This was confirmed         educationists.  This  is  where
               by  the  Commander  of  the           the  role  of  parenting  comes,
               Faithful,  Imam  Ali,  when  he       which  means  pledging  the
               said to his son Hassan:               child's  development,  step  by
                                                     step,  until  he  reaches  full
                                                     development.
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