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               128  International Multi. J. of PURE LIFE. 9 (32): 99-145, Autumn. 2022

               intensity  of  this  need,  but        rewards; Rather, he requires
               also  increases,  and  this  is        deep and measured love.
               related  to  the  emotional               He  wants  the  elders  to
               means  of  adolescents.  In            respect  and  characterize
               adolescence,  emotions  are            him  and  to  consult  and

               strong and full of emotions,           negotiate  with  him  and  to
               so  any  inattention  to  them         be his friends and comrades
               will  cause  depression  and           and  to  trust  him.  He  does

               anxiety.                               not  expect  much,  even  a
                  Failure to express love to          simple     handshake       with
               the  adolescent  causes  him           him,  especially  in  the

               to  distrust  himself  and             presence  of  others,  makes
               others,  and  on  the  other           him feel honored and proud,
               hand,  he  thinks  that  he  is        so  he  always  considers

               certainly  not  worth  loving,         himself indebted to him for
               and  his  instincts  cause             being     so     loving     and
               others  to  be  unloving,  and         respectful.
               on  the  other  hand,  they               The  adolescent's  loving

               consider  those  around  him           behavior       is    a     very
               guilty     and      cruel     to       important factor in guiding
               themselves.                            his  behavior  and  actions.

                  Of course, the adolescent           And  he  is  honored  and
               does  not  like  to  be  loved         loved  by  him  many  times
               like  children,  and  the              and  sees  them  as  his  own

               coaches  constantly  take              goodness  and  happiness.
               care of him and caress him             The  use  of  this  method  by
               and  give  him  rewards  and           parents  reduces  many  of
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