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Impact of Observance of Family Members' Rights… M.M. Safouraei Parizi (81

                  gently”.  (Majlisi,  1982,             Among  the  important
                  Vol. 74: 5)                         instances  of  good  and

                                                      amicable  relationship  is  to
                  She  deserves  to  be               ignore  wife's  mistakes  and
               treated  in  a  befitting  and         forgive  her.  Those  who

               worthy manner. Imam Sadiq              overlook  others'  mistakes
               said:                                  and  forgo  their  personal
                  “A  man  needs  three               rights, attract other people's
                  characteristics  in  order          attention  to  themselves

                  to  be  able  to  run  his          keeping  them  optimistic,
                  home  and  family,  even            loyal and caring.

                  though  they  may  be                  Behaving  with  others  well
                  against       his     innate        and      maintaining      good
                  disposition,  one  is  to           relationships can occur both
                  treat  his  family  members         through speech and conduct.

                  well…”. (Ibid, Vol. 78: 236)
                                                      When  a  man  speaks  with
                  To  treat  someone  with            his  wife  gently  and  in  a

               respect and dignity as well            pleasing manner with a jovial
               as  to  avoid  insulting  and          and  smiling  countenance,
               degrading  him  or  her  is  a         he is, giving her the key of

               human  and  moral  duty  of            love  and  an  amicable  and
               every  man  and  woman.  A             efficient relationship.  He makes
               man  must  not  try  to  focus         his  relationship  strong  and
               too  much  on  his  wife's             stable through an enjoyable

               flaws  and  faults;  rather,  he       and  pleasant  conversation.
               should,  based  on  religious          Serenity  and  respect  in  the

               instructions, try to conceal them.     words,  good  manners  and
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